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Happy Life, Happiness

10/9/2016

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There's an old saying, that, "a happy wife means a happy life."  Aside from the rhyming qualities, a happy couple smile and touch each other, hold hands, admire and compliment each other, perform acts of kindness for each other, performing obligatory tasks gleefully.  Did I mention that taking out the trash could be a "gleeful" event?  When was the last time you purchased flowers for your partner (male or female)?  Took the initiative to "reserve" for a special night-out?  And, dress up; make the effort.  Wash/Dry the dishes without being asked or cajoled.  Put a meter in front of the TV or computer so that your partner doesn't feel shut-out and ignored.  Eat dinner together.  Ask your partner how their day was. 

​Then there is cuddling, nibbling, coziness, stroking.

JK Rowling in her book, Order of the Phoenix, wrote, “Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”

My own advice:  treat your relationship like a courtship.  That eagerness...that passion.  Take the challenge to come up with your own list and keep adding to it.  This is a Club you definitely desire membership.
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