If you are feeling angry, perturbed, frustrated, that is a feeling and not necessarily a FACT. And, indeed, there are those who do not initiate the call or the activity. And, it may very well trigger a feeling. If it brings up triggers from your past, Relationships where you felt that you did all-the-work. Unless it's your partner or spouse, and that's a situation for another discussion, then find friends who will take an equal role in cultivating the friendship. It goes both ways, after all.
PS: Review your life goals. If you've always wanted to learn how to ice skate, learn an art (painting, sculpture, ceramics, flyfishing, astrology, cooking class, poetry, writing your memoir, travel - - the list can go on and on. Join a topical meetup group. You'll be surprised how many like-minded people you meet.